ohio fred said:.......What bother me is you can golf ride your bike skate board park park on lawn swim ice hockey basket ball foot ball soccer jog let your dog poop everything you can think of ...... ask to metal detect .... is a big fat no,........ kids bring a bunch of kids and give them shovels and buckets and they can dig holes where ever they want.........
Well, ohio-fred, do you know what the difference is between those golfers, bike-riders, skate-boarders, ice-hockey, dog-poop-walkers, kids with shovels, etc... is ?
As you have deduced, persons doing those things (which could be deemed to damage park features) are doing it, and no one's stopping them (unless some rare occurance or bored cop, etc...). But here's the difference between them, and md'rs: The reason md'ers are being told "no", is because ........ we asked! (doh! ) What I mean is, if any of those other people you listed had gone in to city hall and said: "hi, can I shovel sand in the park?" or "can I let my dog poop on the lawn?" or "can I golf which might leave divots?", etc... What do you think the city's answer would be? They would probably tell those people "no". But as you can plainly see, people are doing it, and ...... no one cares. Thus the difference between them and us? For some reason md'rs have gotten it in their mind that they need to ask "can I?" type questions (grovelling). But those other people don't look at themselves in that light. Might they *technically* be doing something that there *could* be verbage morphed to apply to their activity? SURE! But does anyone care? Usually not. The moral of the story here: we md'rs should stop asking silly questions, and ... just go, when there's no *specific* disallowance. And just like those other people you list, you're usually ignored.