we go over and over this old chestnut and we are all still out there detecting..
had someone approach me one day saying you cant dig holes here i said what's your definition of a hole obviously that question struck a nerve and i was then attacked with a barrage of outrageous accusations none of which were or are true..
my point is nothing i say or do is going to change someone's mind who has it made up, except now i will not accept that behaviour ever again..
another example a park 2 soccer fields never been detected in a nice quite spot talked with the guy who was in the same game as me garbage removal except he was the grounds keeper or what ever one wants to call them neither of us own the park and neither of us don't not own the park, he was very happy to see me spend every day except game day, spending 4 hrs a day cleaning out the park and it took me 4 months to get 95% out of there 1000's of tabs coins rings you name it it was in there. my point is if you go to that park today and try to find evidence of me doing what i did there is NONE and i did a community service.
the only crime committed would be in the eyes of someone who (doesn't like what i am doing) and as stated above timing is key and also understanding that 99% of people don't care less what i am doing its the 1% who see a target that are to be avoided like the plague, i turn my back and walk away now, if they persist i do quote civil harassment laws and they will be charged after all is not my personal safety above all else the most important or is someone taking out their bad day on me ok??
as i said before i am not responsible for anyone else's happiness, what i am responsible for is taking care of myself..
AJ
had someone approach me one day saying you cant dig holes here i said what's your definition of a hole obviously that question struck a nerve and i was then attacked with a barrage of outrageous accusations none of which were or are true..
my point is nothing i say or do is going to change someone's mind who has it made up, except now i will not accept that behaviour ever again..
another example a park 2 soccer fields never been detected in a nice quite spot talked with the guy who was in the same game as me garbage removal except he was the grounds keeper or what ever one wants to call them neither of us own the park and neither of us don't not own the park, he was very happy to see me spend every day except game day, spending 4 hrs a day cleaning out the park and it took me 4 months to get 95% out of there 1000's of tabs coins rings you name it it was in there. my point is if you go to that park today and try to find evidence of me doing what i did there is NONE and i did a community service.
the only crime committed would be in the eyes of someone who (doesn't like what i am doing) and as stated above timing is key and also understanding that 99% of people don't care less what i am doing its the 1% who see a target that are to be avoided like the plague, i turn my back and walk away now, if they persist i do quote civil harassment laws and they will be charged after all is not my personal safety above all else the most important or is someone taking out their bad day on me ok??
as i said before i am not responsible for anyone else's happiness, what i am responsible for is taking care of myself..
AJ