I agree.
There are no correlations on TID numbers and most jewelry...too many variables.
There are some average ranges, however, not that they are in stone.
Small gold can come in at foil numbers easily, I have found rings from where those round, foil freshness seals come in on up through most foil areas.
Bigger gold usually comes in higher as the size gets larger from nickel through tabs for the most part.
That is why most tell others to find gold you have to dig tabs, or nickels...but that is just on average and not really true because gold can come in anywhere from iron on up.
Larger rings like huge men's 10k class rings will come in the same area as zinc cents will, gold can come in higher than that too.
High karat stuff can soar, a friend found a teeny tiny 24k Ring that came in at a dime, large pure stuff like big gold coins even higher.
White gold can come in all over, if it is alloyed with silver to make that white metal color high, if mixed with nickel, low.
Chains...all will come in lower than rings most of the time and that includes silver.
Broken and open rings...also very low.
Silver rings and other jewelry besides chains from quarters to dimes and even lower depending on the size.
Everything can be affected by depth, soil and masking.
That 20 you got on that wedding ring is worrisome.
Unless it was massive like a big class ring at 10 or more grams it shouldn't have come in that high.
You also mentioned cleaning crud off of it and noticing some gold color inside the band where you found that 10k mark but not everywhere.
All gold I have found in the dirt cleaned off real easy, for most people it usually does.
The higher the purity the easier the dirt comes off but even 10k should shake off most dirt and crust pretty easily.
You know what kind of rings are marked 10k and are hard to clean and come in at higher numbers...fake ones.
I have found a few of those in my time too, every one marked but nowhere near real gold.
Find enough gold and you get a feel for what is real and what isn't...that includes silver too.
I would check out that gold ring closer if I were you, invest in some 10-14-18 and 22k gold testing acid sometime and that 18k acid can be used to test silver, also.
Or find a friendly jeweler or pawn shop that will test things for you.