I detected a lot of evenings after work... Every weekend, Every Holiday, And even planned vacations so I could detect.
Wow was I selfish ....... My family paid the price without ever complaining..... Kudos to them.. but not deserving to me...........
I realized one day when I heard plans being made I wasn't being counted on to be part of the festivities. . I heard a family member say "All dad cares about is detecting" so can we just go without him..??
That was an eye opener.. It made me realize how foolish and selfish I was being.. I do not detect all the time now..and in fact took a break from it to spend time with my family..
Like other things detecting can become an obsession and make one not consider others as long as their doing what they want ( Detecting).. It requires a balance... No one should let an obsession rule their life or time.. My family did not complain..They just adjusted and started moving on without me, or my time with them.. Rather than considering something that was important to them.. I was digging pennies and junk with a maybe good find here and there.. NOT REAL SMART ON MY PART !!!
Wow was I selfish ....... My family paid the price without ever complaining..... Kudos to them.. but not deserving to me...........
I realized one day when I heard plans being made I wasn't being counted on to be part of the festivities. . I heard a family member say "All dad cares about is detecting" so can we just go without him..??
That was an eye opener.. It made me realize how foolish and selfish I was being.. I do not detect all the time now..and in fact took a break from it to spend time with my family..
Like other things detecting can become an obsession and make one not consider others as long as their doing what they want ( Detecting).. It requires a balance... No one should let an obsession rule their life or time.. My family did not complain..They just adjusted and started moving on without me, or my time with them.. Rather than considering something that was important to them.. I was digging pennies and junk with a maybe good find here and there.. NOT REAL SMART ON MY PART !!!