The others have given great advice to you already…. Like some stated…. Don’t take it too seriously and have fun.
No one makes great finds everytime they go out, and I have been to some great sites and was disappointed at the lack of old finds.
Last Sunday after doing a few chores around the house, I decided to go just down the road and try around an old cabin that I have been to several times and besides two or three wheat pennies and a few modern coins, this site has not really given up much.
The only reason I tried it again is to try a small coil there that I recently got, the landowner had just mowed the area, and most of all, it was very close.
I only searched for an hour, but surprisingly, working my way back to my truck, I found a 1923 Mercury dime… my first silver from there.
Only other two items I found worth mentioning was an old buckle and a copper rivet.
I did not expect to find anything, but this short hunt re kindled my interest in this site.
I had just about written it off.
Just get out have have fun… eventually you will find something and get back in the right frame of mind!!
Any time you can get out to detect is a good day as far as I am concerned.
Good luck!!