Sorry about the misunderstanding. I know this is an open forum. I also know I don't have a creative bone in my body, and a poor memory to boot.
My comment about joining should have been kept inside my reply to Lil Sis. My only intent was to "join" the many folks I was sure would be praying for her to begin feeling better. I did and I'm sure she is.
I have been lurking here for a couple of years with one or two posts, or direct mail to folks like Dan who so eloquently describe seemingly ordinary circumstances, but from a view with so much more attention to detail, feeling and compassion than most of us are capable of expressing.
I enjoy the reading and the ANNONIMITY, so I think I'll continue to lurk.
But thanks for the offer, and all the comments to my reply (not really a request).