of interviewing, and handle mine quite the way you do. Still, I am NOT a good judge of character in some instances, and got burned a lot! I like to see if the person is really needing a job, do they have a family, etc?
And like Royal said, having to let someone go is just the hardest thing to do for me. I have been in that position before, and know how devastating it can be! I have always told my employees that we "share" in our company, and if we do good, they do good too! I have always stuck by this rule. When owners get "greedy", it can kill a company quickly.
My mother was my top paid employee. After her strokes, I was determined not to let her sit around her house and dwindle into nothing. She came to work for us sorting and opening our mail, stamping it, and getting it ready for people to post the payments, and work the correspondence. She came to work every day, and left whenever she wanted, usually just after lunch.
The promise me and the brothers made to our daddy was that we would always take care of mother, and this was the one way I could make sure she never needed money for anything. Plus it was good therapy for her to know she was needed, and had a reason to get up every morning. They way I figured it, she probably made about $20 an hour back then, but that was okay! It was my privelege!
Then there are the ones like you mentioned, Dan, who talked on cell phones, brought significant others with them or children. I think these are the ones that are come for the interview primarily to be "their unemployment contact" for the week, as I have hired some people thinking they would be good for the job, and come Monday they never show up!
That's what I think your "candy bar" thief was all about.
I did hire two men. One was my brother, who was very loyal to me and Scott, and I loved seeing him everyday. He also worked with us the same time mother did. But he moved on to the hospital, which was a great move on his part, and he is happy. That makes me happy but I miss him terribly!
The other was a guy that was going to "market" for us when we first moved to our first office. He was great to look at, but almost bankrupted us when we got our first Amex card bill after he started. His expense account was more than I made! "You're Fired" came as easy for me as it does for Donald Trump when that happened.
I really enjoyed your story! Thanks for the laugh! I could just see that little girl struggling with the tank, and YOUR eyes when the buttons popped!