sorry to hear of your troubles, canewrap. i think it happens to everybody, eventually. lucky for me though, and probably quite a few others, the old saying still rings true: a feller can't hide who and what he really is for very long. here goes:
1. how about the feller i took detecting with me one time, only to quickly find out that he was jealous of everything i found, and started throwing bb's in front of my machine? that's a low down, dirty dog for ya. if he wasn't such a puny lil' rascal, i'da beat the tar outta him.
2. how about all those good lookin' spots i was detecting in northern virginia, coming up with very little except handfuls of newly minted pennies? i'm not talking about a couple spots either, i'm talking 8 to 10. come to find out, an older woman had hit these spots before me, and made it a habit to throw a roll of new pennies all over the place. it's times like those that i just shook my head and left, never going back there again. to this day, i still leave clad coinage and newer copper in the ground. let someone else find it 50 years from now. i don't need money that bad. i guess her name was penny.
3. i can recall a few times in the past knocking on an old farmhouse door asking permission to hunt the property, then the owners angrily showing me the moonscape someone had made of their woods or pasture. there were a bunch of unfilled holes everywhere. man, i felt real small real quick, even though i had nothing to do with it. lord help 'em if they are caught - some of them ol' boys don't take that kind of treatment of their land too lightly around here. i'd be mad too. real mad.
4. or how about the time last year when a feller asked me to do some research for him on another forum? well, he was new at this, a nice guy i thought, i was bored, so i relayed the info to him. ain't heard a simple thankyou, and ain't never heard back from him. i'll guarantee you one thing, brother, that's the LAST TIME that will happen. do your own homework. that way, you KNOW what's up.
5. an old buddy of mine took a guy he knew out detecting with him to a new spot. my buddy found some old wheat cents, a couple of indians, a couple old silver dimes, etc.,nothing spectacular, but still a good day in an old park. well the guy he took with him had a SPECTACULAR day! he came out of the old park with a nice pocketful of silver dimes, quarters, and halves. no coppers at all, and none of it was dirty at all. going back to their cars, the guy was trying to keep my buddy away from his car - you'd had to been 300 feet away from the car not to notice all the torn coin flips littering the front seat and floorboard! seems the guy paid a visit to the local coin shop beforehand. phew! sometimes i wonder just how far people are willing to go.
that's just a few of my personal horror stories. after nearly 30 years detecting, there's lots more. there's 2 good men out there for every bad one. there's plenty of good hunting pardners out there, you just haven't found one yet. a good pardner can be hard to find, and i'm glad to have the two hunting partners that i do have. really glad.