.. got an e-mail from my old Church today,they very casually told about how busy they have been,how they had Vern's funeral yesterday......Vern was one of my very best friends in that Church,and they KNEW it.I would have gone back to the funeral,if they had bothered to let me know,BUT THEY DIDNT,and I find this SO highly irritating;I'm not sure if I will EVER go back,even to visit.I sent them a reply,asking WHY was I not informed?TERRIBLE.......................