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Talked to my wife today................

B

boomers dad

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........she suggested going to marriage counseling classes,with our Pastor-to which I said"GREAT IDEA-We will talk to Pastor tomorrow"...................:thumbup:
 
I hope and pray that it works out and both of you need to listen carefully to what the other spouse has to say about what is wrong with the marriage! Communication is very important to help understand the other spouse's views and thoughts....unless two walk together there is no agreement! My ex would not communicate and would only get mad when I tried to ask him something that he didn't want to hear or agree with, but it was because of his adultery and did not want me to know; therefore, remain silent if he didn't get angry and just took my questions as telling him what to do...I know I was at fault, too, but communication is needed and God needs to be the head of the home! Amen! :angel: Ma Betty
 
Couldn't have said it better myself, MaBetty. BOTH of you NEED to LISTEN to ONE ANOTHER, if it's going to work. I pray there will be greater understanding and acceptance for you both. May God's will be done in your marriage. This is a NEW BEGINNING!
 
Thanks Martin and communication with God and listening to His Holy Spirit is very important. too, actually more so, for us to endure and overcome all things! May God Bless! Amen! :angel: Ma Betty
 
Great idea and a pastor is much better than some shrink who doesn't know Jesus or where his own mind is. Praying for you both and Boomer.
 
Praying now......God Is Good.......
Dan
 
Great idea! Prayers will continue!
 
Steve, that is great. For her to suggest that says something. Like others have said, it takes both of you. If one in the marriage wants it to work and the other does not it won't. I speak from experience. My first wife did not want it to work and it did not. After 11 years she gave up. If you and your wife will turn this completely over to God and put HIM first in your marriage, IT WILL WORK OUT. We are here for you my friend.
 
Glad to hear you all are going to counseling...it will work if you both want it to. From a woman's perspective, we tend to crave security and stability. Make a point to be her rock no matter what. It may feel like you are doing all the work for awhile (and you may be), but I can bet it will get her attention.
 
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