MI$$OURI BETTY
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My cousin, Virginia, called today and she was crying and very upset! She needed prayer and I prayed for her. It seems that the reports on Aunt Myrtle, when she went home from the hospital after the abcess was lanced, weren't read nor did either of two drs call her and let her know that the abcess is caused from the inside out and not from the outside in as was stated to her, then to me and all of you. Now, fluids are building up in the pocket of the abcess and causing her to be toxic.
Virginia doesn't know what to do, as Aunt Myrtle will be 93 in Oct and doesn't want any more surgery. They are talking about going in and removing a portion of her colon and she may need a colostomy bag. She also has an enlarged heart and may not survive the operation.
I told Virginia that I thought she should not have the surgery and I hope this was good advice for her and Aunt Myrtle because of the circumstances. I prayed also for comfort and peace for Virginia to make the right decision and for God to take Aunt Myrtle quickly and not let her suffer if this is His will! I hope I did the right thing and prayed correctly.....it is so hard to lose your mother no matter what age she is. My mom passed away when she was 72-1/2 years young. Dad was 71 on July 12 and passed away Oct 12 in 1984! I am the age of my father right now, but not as ill as he was with the COPD!
Also, her brother is an epileptic and had 3 seizures, with her taking him to dr 3 times. So the stress of all this is very great on her. She is a very devoted Christian, but needs a lot of prayer for strength to get through all this!
Please pray for Aunt Myrtle and for Virginia and family!
Thank you for your prayers & God Bless!
Betty
Virginia doesn't know what to do, as Aunt Myrtle will be 93 in Oct and doesn't want any more surgery. They are talking about going in and removing a portion of her colon and she may need a colostomy bag. She also has an enlarged heart and may not survive the operation.
I told Virginia that I thought she should not have the surgery and I hope this was good advice for her and Aunt Myrtle because of the circumstances. I prayed also for comfort and peace for Virginia to make the right decision and for God to take Aunt Myrtle quickly and not let her suffer if this is His will! I hope I did the right thing and prayed correctly.....it is so hard to lose your mother no matter what age she is. My mom passed away when she was 72-1/2 years young. Dad was 71 on July 12 and passed away Oct 12 in 1984! I am the age of my father right now, but not as ill as he was with the COPD!
Also, her brother is an epileptic and had 3 seizures, with her taking him to dr 3 times. So the stress of all this is very great on her. She is a very devoted Christian, but needs a lot of prayer for strength to get through all this!
Please pray for Aunt Myrtle and for Virginia and family!
Thank you for your prayers & God Bless!
Betty