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Opposites Attract.....

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There was Ricky, Ronald, Jerry, Dennis,(The #####ed one), and Sherry if my memory serves me. They all lived just a few blocks east of Thomas Road between us and The Big Four Drive In. All I knew of them were the ones that rode our school bus for the short time before they quit school, and the ones who went to the drive in that we always saw because "neighborhood kids who walked got in free."
Sherry was younger than me so I dont really remember alot about her except she was SO skinny and she had big brown eyes. Well, Dennis didnt go to school because of the "way he was."That left Ricky, Ronald, and Jerry.
They all drove old pieces of junk for cars, but only for one reason. The Kellys were dirt poor even compared to our family. I dont ever remember seeing their mom or dad. They did the best they could for transportation though. I remember Jerry having a 58 Chevy at one time. You would have thought he was driving a race car. Jerry drove it like the fourth of July everywhere he went.
The Kelly boys were painters by trade even though I never remember any of them working for long at one place.------Now to the real story.
I figure it was on a cold winter day somewhere over by Alcoa plant that they first met. Daddy always ran his dogs in the thickets by the plant simply because they were packed with deer and there was easy access to cut the dogs off. Ol Ronald probably heard the dogs running and decided to try to get a little closer. After all, he was hunting not for the sport of it , but out of necessity. He had to do his part to help feed his family. Daddy, on the other hand had once hunted out of necessity, but now was hunting for sport. Somehow Daddy and Ronald hit it off probably because Ronald never worked and both men shared a common secret. There was BIG deer in them woods owned by Alcoa.
I cant recall the year that they met , but I figure it was around 1966. The main reason I say that is because Arkie was graduating high school and getting ready to join the Navy and well me, I was 10 years old and was still "trying" to hunt, but had not killed a deer yet. It would be 3 more years before that happened. With me being so young and John-boy leaving, that left Daddy without a hunting buddy.
Remember yall that Ronald was a poor boy and maybe a year or two older than John-boy. He always had on the same clothes and carried a distinctive body odor about him. Many times Daddy would say, "Ronald, you need to take a bath!" Ronald swore that he did even though it is hard for me to believe.
Both men shared a love of the outdoors for various reasons and soon became close friends. With Ronald being poor though, he was always short on bullets. That boy would go hunting waiting for hours to get a shot and would finally shoot a big buck down only to see him run off.It happened so MANY TIMES! Ronald would go fishing with one lure. Hed walk in to a pond well off the road to have a bass break off his only lure! It was absolutely amazing! Daddy used to get so mad at him.
As Ronald grew older, he didnt get much smarter. He got to where he liked to drink a little bit and it really didnt matter what it was. One day Ronald came over to our house to visit and I heard him tell Daddy, "I saw this buck over by the plant today and he had one horn going this way and another horn going behind his head coming up behind his ear!" After Ronald left, Daddy said, "That was just that damn beer talkin'" Wouldnt you know it; a few days later ol Ronald came back with a buck in his trunk---and it had horns just like he said it did!
It got to be a running joke with my family about ol Ronald. Like okay Ronald, be sure and bring enough bullets with you. Ronald was never prepared that I ever knew. Many days Id see him borrow a few shotgun shells from Daddy promising to pay him back. Dont guess he ever paid back one shell either.
One thing about Ronald though. He would listen to Daddy and even sometimes take heed to what he was saying. I think Daddy was a fatherly figure to Ronald cause I know Ronald respected him. I know Ronald listened as Daddy talked knowing Daddy wasnt just blowing smoke.
I dont know whatever happen to the Kelly family after they all grew up and moved away--I used to see Ronald periodacally at one of the local watering holes back when I was still raising a little hell. Wed talk about hunting and fishing and I might buy him a beer, but hed always mention Daddy. Daddy meant alot to Ronald even 20 years after Daddy died.
Ronald hadnt changed much. He still needed a haircut, had a two day old beard on his face, wore old clothes with hints of paint staining them, and had this funny smelling odor about him. Hmmmmm. Amazing how opposites attract.
God Bless,
Lil Brother <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)"> <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
Back in the days when I was young, folks wore wool coats. If you were lucky, you hung them up in a closet. If not, you hung them on a nail near the wood stove where the heat would dry them out overnight. If you couldn't afford to take them to the cleaners in the nearest town, they would always smell just like whatever kind of wood you burned in the wood stove, combined with the smell of whatever was being cooked on top of the stove, like salt fish, bacon from sows killed while they were in heat, or collard greens. Add that to the smell of tobacco of snuff, and you really had one rank smelling coat! <img src="/metal/html/shocked.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":shock">
Mary M.
 
Not one of the new electric ones but one that ran off the stove. So, when we wanted to dry our clothes, that is where we put them.. And the old bannockburns, wool pants, took forever to dry.
All the best
M
 
never forget it. One particular year, when things were really bad for Ronald's family,..as I recall, he had two little girls, ... mother was upset because they didn't have the money for presents. Ronald asked Daddy, "Well how the heck can they believe in Santa Claus, and then nothing comes?" Daddy talked to mother, and mother talked to me. The both of us went to town, and bought two dolls, two balls, two sets of plastic play dishes, and one outfit each one of the little girls. Then, mother picked up a can of Gardenia Talcum Powder for their mother. When daddy called Ronald, and told him to come over, he was so surprised, and really greatful. He cried he was so surprised, and the little girls could believe in Santa Claus for another year, anyway!
But that's the way our parents were, and I thank God they were ours!
 
to use the dry cleaners, but some folks did better than others when it came to keeping their clothes and themselves clean. Mother was a real stickler about this, even though sometimes it caused a great hardship on her. She never complained. I remember a bath by the old wood stove, in a #3 washtub. I always got to go first, cause I was the little girl! It was tough sometimes, but a lot tougher on our folks.
 
mother had to heat the water on an old black wood stove, one that Lil Brother has in his shop at this very time! <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
it really doesnt surprise me. Daddy and Mama had a heart of gold.
Im sure I forgot a lot about the Kelly family so maybe you and John can add more.
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about that, but you are SO right. That may explain some of it!
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took the bath after you and brother! I still love yall though!
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tinkled in the bath water! <img src="/metal/html/lol.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":lol"> <img src="/metal/html/lol.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":lol">
 
we also had to take a bath in a wash tub. I hated this during the summer because we took the bath in the back yard. I was always scared that someone would see me, but the neighbors lived almost a mile away. A few years later, my Father installed an electric water pump at the well, put pipe and a tub in the house. Those were some good days back then! Please have a great day! Kelley (Texas) <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
and that was after we got a real bathtub and indoor plumbing! <img src="/metal/html/lol.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":lol">
 
Do you think that Ronald is still living in the area? Sounds like your Father liked Ronald and enjoyed hunting with him. Thanks for sharing this story, and please have a great day! Kelley (Texas) <img src="/metal/html/smile.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":)">
 
He probably just found a new watering hole after his old one closed down!
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It took me back to some folks I knew as a kid.Thanks for posting it!
 
Those Kelly boys were somethin' else. I, too, never remember meeting their parents.
They were mostly Native American, the boys always having a head of jet-black, thick hair.
They were a little odd but basically harmless. Ronald was a real fixture around our home for a few years. A little kindness leaves an indelible print on a man's heart if it is given with sincerity.
That's why Ronald Kelly repected Gene Garrett.
Thank you so much for that special story. You nailed it to the wall Lil' Bro. <><
Love ya much,
Johnboy
 
at Christmas one year, but I am drawing a blank for the most part.
I remember Ronald being around when Daddy was in his last days, coming to see him regularly and being at the funeral.
Daddy and Ronald had a special friendship, cementing it with the common love of the water and the woods.
"...and what he knew of the water and the woods, he wrote on the hearts of his boys." I read that on a tombstone down in Cleveland County in 1980. I keep wanting to revisit the place and get the entire poem. It suited Daddy to a tee.
We were blessed to have them and I miss 'em so much.
Johnboy
 
Until I was 25 I had a semi-permanent imprint of a No.3 wash tub on my arse. <img src="/metal/html/wink.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=";)">
I had arms like a g0-rilla by the time I was 13 from having to draw all that water from a 35 foot well. (Ugh)
We all got baths every Saturday night whether we needed them or not! <img src="/metal/html/lol.gif" border=0 width=15 height=15 alt=":lol">
We were blessed though. We had a super well with lots and lots of clean COLD water, even in the middle of the summer. People from town would come out (from about 3 miles) just to get a dipper full of that stuff. <><
Johnboy
 
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