my wife said this marriage is over..................

[boomers dad]

.......because of me losing that job I had;and going to the Drs and "conveinently" having this problem with this hernia they discovered,plus that possible herniated discI have to go in to have checked out next Friday.She said WHY didnt you have something about this earlier if it was so bad??I told her ITS REALLY simple-I WAS NOT HAVING THESE PROBLEMSWITH MY R-HIP /BACK THEN, CAUSING ME TO HAVE TO GO BACK ON DR-PRESCRIBED PAIN PILLS JUST TO BE ABLE TO WALK AND LIVE WITH IT.............The way it stands,I am all the reason for all the pressure on her.Dr. told me its not at all unusual to have these things happen with an older person,when he has been off of work for a while;and going right back to it.My wife is just so sure I did this on purpose,(I got me a documented hernia and a possible herniated disc on purpose???)PLEASE-Prayers for me and my wife,please..................

 

[Leslie(nova scotia)]

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[Mike from MI "Iron Brigade"]

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[Anonymous]

Praying for you, Steve, and God is good, so hold fast to your faith and just keep loving her, no matter how difficult it may seem under the circumstances! My ex always told me I was a hypocondriac when I felt badly, but still worked inside and out of the home, and since he didn't have the problems I had, he refused to believe that I was really as ill as I was! A hemoraging tumor on the ovary made me hurt most of the time...took five years to finally get the dr to say that I needed surgery! Went to my OB and others and because I was suffering from depression, they all thought it was in my head and prescribed anti-depressants! A man could say he was sick and get attention...different with a woman unless we go to a woman dr or a male dr who understands womens' illnesses! I have had migraines (really bad), sinus infections and I'm very allergic to poison ivy and many things....but my ex never understood how sick I could be and just hollored at me, which I was used to so stayed with him and my children!

Your wife doesn't understand and is selfish like my ex was and only thinks about herself and the money you could be making! Keep praying for her and ask God to help her to understand about your problems and to help you both to love each other again like you did in the beginning on your wedding day.....keep the faith Steve and believe me God will work it all out for your good and for His purpose.....be ready to accept whatever He has planned for you, even though He hates divorce it just may be the best for your serving the Lord better than with a not so understanding wife....like God did for me, and I Praise Him and Thank Jesus, for what He has done for me, although it was terrible in the death of a marriage, it worked out for my good with peace in HIs love and for His purpose, for I have served Him in the last 25 years, more so than I did all my youthful years! Just hang in there and fight the good fight of faith.....God's plan is better than we could ever have in ourselves trying to fix it! May God Bless you to be what He wants you to be in His Holy Spirit's leading and guidance! Amen! Ma Betty