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My crisis seems to be over!

Jamie(MI)

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Thanks for praying for me. My wife had a bit of depression and wanted me to move out. She has had a rough life which has made a rough marriage. It's been 29 years and God has been faithful all the way through it. Our marriage has helped me to mature. Not that I am, but laying down your life just seems to have that affect. I wouldn't want to be married to any one else. She truly is a blessing from above. I look forward to another 29 years at least. Now that we have most of the crap out of the way we can enjoy what God meant to be.

Thanks again, Jamie
 
very difficult to live with someone with depression, but you are hanging in there with her and I can tell you really love her! Showing her love no matter what she does or says will do wonders for you both!

I have suffered with depression most of my life and my ex was the one who wanted me to move out....but because of God (a long, long story) I wouldn't move out and he had to eventually after he filed for divorce! Depression is a sickness just like a broken leg, arm or any illness, but nothing works well in a person's life when their brain doesn't work! It feels like being in a dark, deep hole with no way to escape until we give it all to Jesus! The trial of separation and divorce was a long, enduring hardship, but with my Savior I was able to get through it!

So I congratulate you for understanding your wife and loving her and Praise God and Thank You, Jesus for answered prayer! I think the main reason for depression is low self-esteem and/or not being loved or shown we're loved like we should while growing up! We each need to know we are loved and God loves us with an everlasting love and unconditionally! He accepts us just the way we are and then He cleans us up and makes us whole and righteous in His righeousness! :angel:

God Bless!
Betty
 
they have had all heart & flowers throughout their long marriage is a liar. We all have to work things out - sure glad you both did. Once Nancy & I ( mostly I ) got things figured out through the Lord's urging - all has gone well. It's been 17 years - you will be Ok now, The Lord provides, steve in so az
 
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I was worried about you, and family. I am so glad things are better. May come a time that I will need all of your prayers. I have been married 18 years and times have seen happier days. We are constantly stressed about our daughter. We adopted her from Russian when she just turned three. She is ten now and has A.D.D. AND A.D.H.D.. We love her so much and would do anything for her. She is very small for her age, she could pass for a 6 or seven year old. She has difficulty learning and poor social skills. She has fits of anger that makes Linda Blairs preformance in the Exorsist look tame. This is quite a stress on our marrage. I would never get a divorce or leave my children. I look to God for answers and strength. I do not drink or go out with the boys ever. May seem sad, but my family is the most important thing to me. One great escape for me is the rare oppertunity to go metal detecting. It is where I can think about the thinks in life that are important. I really do resolve some issues while detecting, and once in awhile find a coin or two. My daughter is a great basketball player, singer and acts in plays. So she does wonderful in many activities. She went to the University of Michigan hospital for an evaluation today. We do not have all the details but they said she would not grow much more than she has already. That is scarey because she is only four foot something. Sorry to rammble on. Jamie I am glad things are better, I wanted to call you to see if things were ok. But was not aware of the situation, and the details. I don't like to bother people, so I did pray. Thought I lost my only hope of a detecting partner. Let me know when you have some time to search for treasure. Jeff.
 
My prayers have been answered! That is great news Jamie!
 
I will keep you guys in my prayers!
 
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