First as for you lack of depth: Is the ground balance set properly? Sensitivity too low? Are you in highly mineralized ground area?
Where are you testing the depth: in a planted coin garden, in a field where there might not be coins deeper than 4-5 inches, against another detector? I assume Garret has gone over these points with you. Hope the new coil fixes your depth problem.
Now for the NEL...
I have the BIG NEL on my ATPro right now. It covers a whole lot of ground in very little time, but pinpointing is difficult, especially if your coil is underwater. Under water it has a lot of swing resistance due to its physical size. On the land / dry sand as it is very heavy heavy coil to swing without a shoulder harness - I use the Minelab ProSwing 45. Yes, I will be keeping the BIG COIL it has its use.
Now as for depth...I have not done any side by side testing nor do I worry too much about depth when chest deep in water or looking for a currently lost item. I do worry about reaching too far into the water and filling my 31" gauntlet gloves with water this time of year as the water temps down to about 47 F right now.
Personally I would not use it on the dry sand or in a field unless I was looking for a specific, currently lost item. In a new area, the BIG coil just might be used to "scan" the area for a more defined area to detect.
I also have the ATPro's 4.5 round coil, 5X8 coil, and the standard coil...each has a purpose and an ideal area where it should be used. When it comes to selecting a detector / coil combination, knowledge of the combination, area, environment, and item being looked for will give you the best chance of finding the item.