I may not be on here much longer...................

[boomers dad]

........My wife has gone off the deep end about me losing this job.she has told me she is thinking about throwing me out,because of this.I havent told her about the times I have come home from work just to cry in pain from my hips.I may have to move in with my sister,give up my church council/congregation position,and move completely away from this area I live in now.My sister told me "dont worry-the door is always open here for you"..................................

 

[lusitania]

Sorry to hear that you are going through this....It sounds to me as if your wife only thinks of you as a paycheck....I too have been out of work, but my wife understands that sometimes things happen and although it can hurt us financially all that matters is that we are together and both healthy....Every time we have hit hard times it has only made us stronger....If your wife truly wants you to leave because you are not working then it just might be for the best if you do leave...Money isn't everything....I truly believe that once you find the right person it doesn't matter how much money you have as long as you are working together to make a decent life for yourselves and your family....The Greatest thing in the world is TRUE Love....Good Luck and I hope that you get this worked out

 

[Mike from MI "Iron Brigade"]

God will see this through!

 

[seeker41]

praying for you!!!!!!

 

[Pete in MI]

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[SEMPERFI61]

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[Anonymous]

Hi Bill, I think Steve's wife has a job!


Hi Steve hang in there....it is always the darkest when something bad first happens! Don't make decisions too hastily!! Treat your wife with kindness and pray for God's guidance and He will bring you out of your lowest point and elate you higher as you walk more and more in the light of Jesus Christ! Get some good sleep and take one day at a time and you will see that it will all work out for the better whether you stay or leave! I was really low when things happend in my life and I know you have a lot of the illnesses that I have and it would be very difficult for me to do any physical work....God understands so put it all in His hands and try not to be depressed and upset over all this, although it is difficult because I've been there and done that, but I am far better off mentally than I used to be with a husband and much, much happier but still get lonely at times...and yet I am better off without someone to take care of or wait on because of my health issues! Prayers for comfort and peace in your grief and trials! May God Bless! Amen! Ma Betty

 

[DK]

Steve, don't give up. God is in control. When we marry it is to be for better or worse. If your wife is truly serious about this just because you don't have employment, then she may need to get reconnected with what the Bible says about marriage. Turn this over to God. He will see you through this. We are here for you brother.

 

[Mike Chgo area]

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[SEMPERFI61]

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[Anonymous]

Thanks Bill.....I am blessed, although some wouldn't think so because I don't have an expensive home and car, but God has supplied my needs when I really needed help and I am still able to live in my home and I Praise God and Thank Jesus for that! May God Bless! Amen! Ma Betty