A what I thought was a 'good friend' of mine and a Christian,has told me to 'go to 
',and I will tell you why....Out of left field,she announces yesterday she is filing for divorce this coming week,then she posted on a public forum about her and hubby'spending all day Saturday screaming terrible things at each other'......Not a word from the husband's side,of course,and IMMEDIATELY,IT WAS ALL HUBBY'S FAULT,her own Christian family members joining in the fray to publicly flail him.......Being that I know both of these people well,I was led to send her messages,privately and on the public page, 'DON'T BE AIRING THIS KIND OF A FAMILY ISSUE ON A PUBLIC FORUM,IT IS BETWEEN YOU AND HUSBAND AND GOD,TAKE IT TO HIM!!!!'.......Might have been a mistake,but I did say both of them sounded real immature,screaming at the top of their lungs nasty names.......It turns out her sister is dying,her emotions are high,and I told her 'you should have just gone by yourself to your sister,and leave whatever problems you had at home until later'.........
End result is she is telling everybody that did not side with her in vilifying hubby,when she needed 'love and comfort', is 'GO TO,and she has a mind to kick us while we are down,'but that wouldn't be Christian'.......
.....There were other women backing her up,that told the men that responded( me) to quit judging and condemning-I was being honest,yet they can condemn hubby for doing the same thing wife is guilty of???In any event,I told her 'you have honesty and judging confused,and I WILL NOT change the truth,because you want me to',but,she is probably not listening,she wrote me off.........
',and I will tell you why....Out of left field,she announces yesterday she is filing for divorce this coming week,then she posted on a public forum about her and hubby'spending all day Saturday screaming terrible things at each other'......Not a word from the husband's side,of course,and IMMEDIATELY,IT WAS ALL HUBBY'S FAULT,her own Christian family members joining in the fray to publicly flail him.......Being that I know both of these people well,I was led to send her messages,privately and on the public page, 'DON'T BE AIRING THIS KIND OF A FAMILY ISSUE ON A PUBLIC FORUM,IT IS BETWEEN YOU AND HUSBAND AND GOD,TAKE IT TO HIM!!!!'.......Might have been a mistake,but I did say both of them sounded real immature,screaming at the top of their lungs nasty names.......It turns out her sister is dying,her emotions are high,and I told her 'you should have just gone by yourself to your sister,and leave whatever problems you had at home until later'.........End result is she is telling everybody that did not side with her in vilifying hubby,when she needed 'love and comfort', is 'GO TO
,and she has a mind to kick us while we are down,'but that wouldn't be Christian'............There were other women backing her up,that told the men that responded( me) to quit judging and condemning-I was being honest,yet they can condemn hubby for doing the same thing wife is guilty of???In any event,I told her 'you have honesty and judging confused,and I WILL NOT change the truth,because you want me to',but,she is probably not listening,she wrote me off.........
