I have this friend Robert, who I hunt with a lot. (It was his grandson who gave me Tasha (my avatar) ) Say one of us finds a good coin. At times, not all, but sometimes, we will call the other over, and let them look around the same area, usually at a different angle of sweep lane. You can choose to be "greedy", and it is ok to do so, or you can build a bond with a friend, and it might become a hunting habit with that person, inviting each other to a reasonably immediate area where a good find is made, sharing in the moment. Part of the joy of this hobby is sharing finds, and sharing the finding of a silver or two is pretty cool.
The exhilaration of a good find is catching. I am a firm believer in positive thinking as you detect. It tends to focus your attention on the sounds.
So, next time YOU find a good target, invite your friend over, and see if it doesn't build your bond. Even if he doesn't reciprocate, do it again, and again, and he will catch on.
HH
Dennis Wynne