It is not a simple task for the un-trained eye to positively identify a diamond, a great many books have been written about this topic. It is better to take your stone to a trained jeweller/Gemmologist.
However here are a few clues you can look for, but first arm yourself with a good quality 10 power loupe and bright light.
1. Look for very flat facets and exact facet meeting points (diamond cutters are precise) diamond facets are dead flat with exact meeting points and the facet edges are extremely sharp (not easy for the untrained eye to recognise) and straight (not diagnostic but is indicative) whereas other stones have rounded facet edges which often show chipping.
2. Diamond has a good play of colour and the stone appears bright when viewed through the crown (top). If the play of colour is dazzling with lots of rainbow colours then the stone is likely to NOT be diamond.
3. If the stone is set in a closed setting, the stone may not be diamond.
4. If when you wear the ring you can see your finger through the stone then it is not diamond (for round brilliant cut only). Some shallow cut stones may allow some light through.
5. Look for BEARDING around the girdle (largest diameter facet edge) these are tiny cracks running around the girdle at approx 90 degrees to the girdle edge and only appear on diamond that does not have a polished girdle (diagnostic).
6. If you can see tiny triangular shapes on the girdle (trigons) these are diagnostic.
7. The girdle often has a satin like finish (not diagnostic but indicative) and most imitations have a polished girdle however so do some high qual larger diamonds.
8. Look for inclusions that are tiny black spots or clusters, clear or reddish brown crystals (not diagnostic but very indicative)
9. Diamond is extremely hard at 10 on a scale of one to ten with Talc being one and there being a ten times difference in hardness between each level so 2 is ten times harder than 1 and so on.
10. Diamond will scratch everything in nature but I am not telling you how to do a hardness test because you could bugger the stone and then you would blame me. Quartz and glass has a waxy look and feel, CZ can actually look brighter and more firery with a greater play of colour than diamond, a strong play of colour is always very sus. Grease sticks to diamond like sh---t to a blanket, water runs of very freely. If you breath on a diamond it will demist very quickly.
Don