William-NM said:
Good thinking, upnorth. Too bad I'm so bad/shy about doing that, grrrr. Heck, I'd pay somebody to do it for me! I'm fine if I just bump into somebody and strike up a conversation... if the eye patch, peg leg and jagged scars across my face don't scare 'em off first
I am pretty bold in this regard, but I will admit that it feels a little personal now and then on a rejection. But I'd bet that I average about 50% positive results. I tend to go in sporadic flurries. I didn't seek permissions last year and only did one cold call so far this winter, but I have more to do. Most people are pretty decent to neutral in their replies and if no, I still smile and thank them for their time. Once in a very great while I have run across a very spooky individual, were your senses tingle and tell you to back away. I'll also admit that it really sucks to drool over a big turn of the century yard, get permission, then find basically nothing but clad or junk. Funny how that works. One house coughs a 30's quarter and 20's coppers, the next old house, basicly nothing. A guy never knows. I try for back yard gardens before planting, when I remember. Most folks could care less if you dig there, and I've found some nice bits in them. Nice to me anyway. ..... I try to dress reasonably neat and clean in town and always smile at the door upon meeting. I also tend to back up or away off the porch so as not to intimidate people by invading their personal space. It also allows them a feeling of dominance. If a woman comes to the door, particularly if she is elderly, I back wayyyy off, call her dear, Mam, whatever seems appropriate at the time.......... But usually I just have wild furniture busting sex with the housewives and let them put the good word in for me.