I have never been fond of using a direct coil ear-to-solid roop-tip connection. It is just too easy top not get the coil positioned properly, at times, and if the search coil is not too snug and is allowed to flop and wiggle then there will be wear on the both the rod tip mounting as well as the inside dog ears on the coil.
Some of the worst cases of that wear-and-tear that I have seen were with the early Tesoro models that didn't have rubber washers. Then they did provide washers, but ended up using two different thicknesses in order to get the coil snug without too much pressure to flex the mounting ears outward. The results were either too much flexing and I saw cracked coil housings or ears just broken off completely, or the rubber washers were too thin and there wasn't enough washer to make a major difference and, again, I often saw the grooved wear on the inside of the dog-ear on the coil and/or wear on the rod piece because the washer didn't really protrude beyond the edge.
Now, there are two things to do in order to eliminate the wear we might see on the Teknetics coils and rod-mount tips (or similar designs):
1.. Make sure the rod/coil connector is snugged up, firmly, so that the search coil is held in place in the operating position. You shouldn't have a 'floppy' coil.
2.. As instructed in most Operator's Manuals, keep the search coil 1"-2" off the ground when searching. This will eliminate bumps and such that can move it from a set position.
3.. Use rubber washers. See below;
My 5" DD coil 'ears' were slightly wider than the other coils and it was supplied with a single (1) rubber washer. I used a couple of slightly thinner washers for my 5" DD that I keep on a spare lower rod.
The other coils are, as noted, a very tight fit and can cause gouging when the search coil is flexed up and down. I don't use a detector bag or mess with my coil angle, if I can help it, but some folks do bend the coil back to fit it in a bag or their vehicle. This can cause wear.
On my other rods I simply used some caution and ground the outer 'ring' portion of the lower rod and the center piece that you put the bolt through so that they were narrower. Then I used two rubber washers that provide a proper fit that snugs up well with the connecting bolt. That way my search coil stays firmly in place with pressure from rubber washers, this keeps the plastic rod from contacting the 'dog ears' of the search coil. Results? No wear or damage.
Monte